Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Spanking



This is a bit random but I just read an article on spanking. This is a very controversial subject but I had to to post this.

"Study: Spanking Kids Leads to More Aggressive Behavior


By Alice Park – Mon Apr 12, 1:50 am ET
(TIME Magazine Article)

Disciplining young children is one of the key jobs of any parent - most people would have no trouble agreeing with that. But whether or not that discipline should include spanking or other forms of corporal punishment is a far trickier issue.


The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) does not endorse spanking for any reason, citing its lack of long-term effectiveness as a behavior-changing tactic. Instead the AAP supports strategies such as "time-outs" when children misbehave, which focus on getting kids to reflect on their behavior and the consequences of their actions. Still, as many parents can attest, few responses bring about the immediate interruption of a full-blown tantrum like a swift whack to the bottom. (See pictures of the evolution of the college dorm.)


Now researchers at Tulane University provide the strongest evidence yet against the use of spanking: of the nearly 2,500 youngsters in the study, those who were spanked more frequently at age 3 were more likely to be aggressive by age 5. The research supports earlier work on the pitfalls of corporal punishment, including a study by Duke University researchers that revealed that infants who were spanked at 12 months scored lower on cognitive tests at age 3.


"I'm excited by the idea that there is now some nice hard data that can back up clinicians when they share their caution with parents against using corporal punishment," says Dr. Jayne Singer, clinical director of the child and parent program at Children's Hospital Boston, who was not involved in the study. (Read "Should Kids Be Bribed to Do Well in School?")


Led by Catherine Taylor, the Tulane study was the first to control simultaneously for variables that are most likely to confound the association between spanking and later aggressive behavior. The researchers accounted for factors such as acts of neglect by the mother, violence or aggression between the parents, maternal stress and depression, the mother's use of alcohol and drugs, and even whether the mother considered abortion while pregnant with the child.


Each of these factors contributed to children's aggressive behavior at age 5, but they could not explain all of the violent tendencies at that age. Further, the positive connection between spanking and aggression remained strong, even after these factors had been accounted for.


"The odds of a child being more aggressive at age 5 if he had been spanked more than twice in the month before the study began increased by 50%," says Taylor. And because her group also accounted for varying levels of natural aggression in children, the researchers are confident that "it's not just that children who are more aggressive are more likely to be spanked."


What the study, published Monday in the journal Pediatrics, shows is that outside of the most obvious factors that may influence violent behavior in children, spanking remains a strong predictor. "This study controls for the most common risk factors that people tend to think of as being associated with aggression," says Singer. "This adds more credence, more data and more strength to the argument against using corporal punishment."


Among the mothers who were studied, nearly half (45.6%) reported no spanking in the previous month; 27.9% reported spanking once or twice; and 26.5% reported spanking more than twice. Compared with children who were not hit, those who were spanked were more likely to be defiant, demand immediate satisfaction of their wants and needs, get frustrated easily, have temper tantrums and lash out physically against others.


The reason for that, says Singer, may be that spanking instills fear rather than understanding. Even if a child were to stop his screaming tantrum when spanked, that doesn't mean he understands why he shouldn't be acting out in the first place. What's more, spanking models aggressive behavior as a solution to problems.


For children to understand what and why they have done something wrong, it may take repeated efforts on the parent's part, using time-outs - a strategy that typically involves denying the child any attention, praise or interaction with parents for a specified period of time (that is, the parents ignore the child). These quiet times force children to calm down and learn to think about their emotions, rather than acting out on them blindly.


Spanking may stop a child from misbehaving in the short term, but it becomes less and less effective with repeated use, according to the AAP; it also makes discipline more difficult as the child gets older and outgrows spanking. As the latest study shows, investing the time early on to teach a child why his behavior is wrong may translate to a more self-aware and in-control youngster in the long run. "



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Thursday, April 1, 2010

Day Four


Today is day four of second hand fashion week. The shirt I am wearing was given to me by my older sister, and the pants I got at a thrift store. (Thank the Lord for for thrift stores!!!) I was dead tired today so I didn't take very many pictures. Please excuse the rats nest on my head.








ART
What I'm Wearing:
Pants: DKNY
Shirt: sonoma
Vest:AMI
Thank you for visting my blog!
Alexa




Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Today is day three in Secondhand Fashion Week. The rain cleared up so I was able to to pictures outside. The shirt I am wearing was bought at a thrift shop and the skirt was passed down from my older sister. The black flats that are also passed down from her. Thanks sis! Then necklace I am wearing was given to me for Christmas.


























What I'm Wearing
Skirt- Still Kids Clothing
Shirt- L.A. Blues
Shoes- I've had them for so long the lable has worn out
Thank you for visting my blog.
Alexa

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Day Two


Today is day two of AmandaBethOnline Secondhand Fashion Week. The shirt that I am wearing was bought at an antique store. The black tanktop was a hand-me-down from my mom. My skirt was given to to me by my older sister and is one of my most worn. Sorry the picture are bad quality my camera is slightly broken. I love the details in the shirt it's is so pretty.











What I'm wearing:
Shirt- Antique's at Mayfair
Skirt- Levi's
Tank Top- GAP
Leggings- Sears
Thank you for visting my blog!
Alexa

Monday, March 29, 2010

First Day of Secondhand Fashion Week

Today's the first day of AmandaBethOnline's Secondhand Fashion Week. Go to this link for more details

http://amandabethonline.blogspot.com/2010/03/secondhand-fashion-week-has-officially.html


The corduroy jacket I'm wearing I got from a hand-me-down bag. The skirt is also second hand, from my older sister.














What I'm Wearing

skirt- Coldwater Creek

jacket- Levi's

shirt- Old Navy

sandals- Land's End

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Second Hand Fashion Week


Next week is Second Hand Fashion Week!!!! I will be posting pictures of what I am wearing everyday. Each outfit will include clothing which has been given to me used. Most outfits will be clothes my older sister has outgrown.

That is all for now. But I'll be back.
Alexa

Sunday, March 14, 2010

The Forbidden Kingdom

The Forbidden Kingdom


Summery:

This movie is one of my all time favorites!!!! (it's number 2 on my list). The basic story is that Jason (Michael Angarano) is sucked back in time to return the Monkey King's staff to him. He has the help of Lu Yan (Jackie Chan), Golden Sparrow ( Liu Yifei), and Sun Wukong/ 'Monk' (Jet Li). When he returns the staff and over throws the Jade Warlord (Collin Chou) he can return back to the 21st century. In our world he is harassed by bullies and is forced by them to help them steal from a pawn shop in China Town. He his friends with the owner who happens to be an old man. While the bullies are searching for the money the shop keeper give Jason a staff and tells him to return it to it's rightful owner.


The Good:

The acting in this film is great and the sets are awesome!! The story line is gripping and you are sucked into the plot. Jason is a hard worker at what he wants and he is very selfless. at first he and the other characters have little respect for each other but that slowly changes. He is a good friend and risks his life for one. Monk cautions Golden Sparrow about taking revenge for her parents death. She is angry because the Jade warlord murdered both her mother and father.

"She will not offer him forgiveness,Monk." Sparrow says.

" Vengeance has a way of rebounding on oneself." The Monk answers.

SPOILER: When Jason returns to our world he uses his new fighting skills to defend himself against bullies. When he does defend himself he does it very reluctantly.

"You don't have to do this." Jason says after a short scuffle with the leader of the bullies. SPOILER.

The Bad:

There is a lot of martial art action in this film and this includes kicks to the face/chest/everywhere else. There is a tiny bit of blood and some scrapes. When Monk and Lu are training Jason they use methods that could be put in a book for torturers. Just take a look at the picture below. ;). There is the element of immortality involved though out the whole movie. There is crude humor . The Jade Warlord has the help of a witch. She carries a whip and doesn't hesitate to use it. (You see her wrap the whip around an inn keepers throat to get information.) SPOILER: When she and Jason dule shen uses the whip and he gets hurled into walls. At the end the Jade warlord falls into a pit of fire and sies.SPOILER
There is some swearing and insults. And Jesus' name is abused once.


Conclusion:
This movie is great for most audiences (10 and up). I love how all the characters are developed and they are real. I can watch this movie any day, anytime. I highly recommend it to anyone who likes kung fu or anything like that. This about sums it up enjoy the trailer I put below.




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e66Og0lOCcE